8 Things You Should Avoid Doing With Your Man
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Relationships can get complicated for a lot of reasons. For instance, a complicated relationship may be a one sided love affair where one person wants to save the relationship while the other person just wants to let go or even go with someone else. For all the women out there, here are 8 Things You Should Avoid Doing With You Man:
1. Avoid being too much of a drama queen.
It is completely normal for girls to feel sad sometimes, but not all the time. Focus on the brigther and positive side instead of being negative and critical about the "random" things.
2. Avoid being too overly attached.
Don’t suffocate him, just like you, guys need their space too. Don't be too dependent on your man. If you're too needy, go back to daddy!
3. Avoid being too jealous.
If you’re always jealous, you may start to feel possessive. Getting upset and feeling rejected most of the time isn't a good sign.
4. Avoid complaining too much.
It’s not a good idea to complain about every minor things. For example, complaining drastically because he didn't open the door right after you knocked? Girl, please reevaluate your actions.
5. Avoid being too complicated.
Don't let your relationship suffer just because of your mood swings. Instead of being too complicated, try to be funny, lively, and spontaneous.
6. Avoid being too manipulative.
Stop being devious, deceptive or sometimes even abusive just to satisfy yourself.
7. Avoid being a poor communicator.
Unfortunately, we don’t live in a perfect world, and people can’t read our minds. Never assume that your man always know what you are thinking. Most of them don't understand your "hints".
8. Avoid blackmailing.
Never use emotional blackmail to get what you want. Screaming, shouting, crying as opposed to calmly discussing the preferences, needs, and desires.
Try not to cross that line between feminine and slutty toddler who throws tantrums whenever she wants. There’s a difference between sorting out a problem and simply criticizing every little thing that’s not going your way. Don’t lay everything out on the table at once; concentrate on one thing at a time, and then tie it back to the bigger picture. In the end, it should always be about the two of you and how you are going to get through things together.
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